See things for what they are.
This is happening FOR you, was the best perspective I grasped. We often feel that things happen to US and wouldn’t it be a better perspective to switch your mind to why is this happening for me, what can I learn? How can i grow? Even in the discomfort and the upset, there are things to learn and ways to grow.
Some seasons of our lives may seem like non stop obstacles, that is life allowing you to plant your seed.
I love the quote “ sometimes when you’re in a dark place you think you’ve been buried, but actually you’ve been planted”