It’s discouraging when the first thing a unbeliever says is “If he’s God and he can do anything , Why doesn’t he just do it ? Why does he allow suffering?” . God doesn’t want us to suffer and in order to keep us from suffering anymore or placing ourselves back in that position we have to fight our way out so we understand what it takes to get out of these situations. Maybe then we won’t be so quick to place ourselves back in these situations. All Glory be to God