The Dirt on Dating

This Master of One Night Stands Reveals His Deepest Desires (Andrew's Story) | Ep. 31


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In today’s episode we interview Andrew, a 39 year old single gay man. He is five years clean and sober ago. Andrew’s sexual history started at age 21 and has consisted almost entirely of one night stands!

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Andrew

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

  • [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
  • [01:39] -  Whether we should opt for recovery or introspective, psychoanalytical stuff started happening in early twenties
  • [02.02] – How Andrew portray himself humbly and says he as a whole is a mess,
  • [03.15] – He doesn't have any, like self-hatred naturally but have a slight case of low self worth
  • [04.46] –  Realizing that under that emotional mask of that smile is just as real as I am undermine and that's beautiful. It's so achievable and it just feels like comfortable and it feels safe
  • [05:29] - Be portrayed as physically attractive is to look at their profile. That's the age, weight. Quality of the picture. If it all lines up, I start vetting them and making sure it goes well.
  • [06.37] – Different sort of dynamics. Do you say, Hey, I'm going to touch your leg right now? Or like, you have a really great package?
  • [07:29] -  They're looking at the loop on the table, their eyebrow raises let's go, that kind of thing. They've already shown interest in my, my toys that I'm gonna use with them. 
  • [08:39] - There is a picket fence wrapped around this person and my person's relationship
  • [10.21] – Relapse prevention classes, all the, you know, accepting of my homosexuality classes, the class that I have not, and how he found the courage to do his sexual addiction class.
  • [13:39] - How someone who has a food addiction. It's like they're sitting down at a table dating. They're obsessed about the food. Well, I'm obsessed about the sex. 
  • [15.53] –Especially through the first month and a half of a quarantine, that one pleasures themselves and get to themselves sexually.


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