First, there’s Eros love.
This is need-based love. Physical attraction kind of love.
Second, there’s Phileo love. This is the devoted, companionship type of love. Paying bills together. This is walking around the mall.
Best-friends-kind-of love.
Third, there’s agape love. This kind of love is giving, even if you get nothing in return. It’s helping a person become better, more mature, more godly.