Have you ever been in a situation where guilt has put you in messy situations? I can tell you about how guilt from a previous affair allowed the opening of Pandora's box in my previous marriage. During this process, my persona decreased until I didn't know who I was. I lost my mom, had a miscarriage, suffered through alcohol abuse, and diagnosed for epilepsy for the first time. Silly of me to think both of us seeking outside the marriage or putting a baby in the midst would help. I will share my personal advice on entering into the dangerous trifecta lifestyle.   Hopefully, this episode you would learn  from my mistakes and evaluate your own relationships.