On the 14th episode of The Matters Of The Heart podcast, I have the pleasure of having the lovely Comfort Adekunle in our midst. She is an Author of the book " Be Fulfilled or Be Forgotten". She is a Life and Purpose Coach, Female Lifestyle Expert, A Videographer and Photographer. 

She is the host of a Show titled "Purpose Show" which is aired weekly with hundreds of views. She is the founder of the Purposeful Females International, a community of Intentional females. She is currently based in Lagos, Nigeria and her favourite quote is "make your life count and don't just count your life".

We covered areas like:  

- 2:16 Introduction

- 4:08 What her childhood was like
She spoke about the tremendous support she got from her parents especially her Dad who always said to her and her siblings that gender is not a barrier to being successful

- 7:00 Her other passions as well
She revealed that she's a lover of children and teaches Sunday school at Church  

- 7:53  What is like to be single and waiting
She explained that it has given her time to explore and discover a lot of things about herself. And also utilising the time on her hands wisely

- 11:25 Her previous relationship that didn't work out which she said was a blessing in disguise as she might have married wrong. She highlighted the fact that you attract who you are. She's got a better relationship with God now and knows better.
She also warned that singles should get married to someone who's ready to share in your dreams and aspirations giving their unflinching support which will definitely bring out the best in you as a person   

- 13:20  Her words of encouragement for singles who are waiting to get married
She advised them not to get pressured into marriage and particularly stressed there's a difference between "A good person and the right person". She admonished them to pray, attend godly gatherings, dress modestly, have a vision for their lives and trust for the right person


- 17:36 Things to look out for in a relationship before considering marriage
The person must be a child of God, love God, must be comfortable with who you are and who you're becoming, trustworthy amongst many others

- 21:00 How to tell that a lady is ready for marriage
She must discovered her personal identity, she must have at least a stream of income. Must be a solution to a problem. She stressed that purpose is an absolute source of relevance so she must understand her purpose

- 28:00 Encouraging the singles to have good, reliable and trustworthy friends they can talk to so they don't feel lonely. She also stressed that Holy Spirit the comforter will comfort them. She admonished them to prioritise their happiness and not get pressured into marriage 


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