You are what you “were”

In other words, what you are today is a sum of the thoughts, actions, beliefs and character that you have gathered over time. If you keenly look at yourself today, you are totally responsible for where you are now and what you have become. You have accumulated yourself into your current status. This may be difficult for some of us to accept but it is the truth. It took time and lots of pain for me to see and accept this but once I did, things started changing for the better. The choices you made based on the circumstances you encountered have brought you where you are now.

The company you constantly keep shapes you into the kind of person you become. If you keep company of losers, naysayers, dejected individuals and generally negative people, you’ll eventually become like them. You may disagree and say that you are different and your energy is strong enough to resist their influence but it will tire you and most of the time after being with such kind of people, you’ll feel tired, spent and frustrated. With time your energy will be depleted and you’ll take up their negative energy. Stay away from them! It’s better to be alone most of the times than to be with negative people and energy vampires!

Generally, the world currently leans more towards negativity hence the need to be constantly on your guard against allowing negative energy, thoughts and people near you. Surround yourself with success and people, things that compel you to be successful. Success needs a mental workout just like growing muscles need a physical workout. Workout on success, it will never disappoint you!