As tough as tough love is to give, when we finally do it, "capable" people can finally grow from "their" choices. The enabling can finally stop and God can reveal the life lessons He can teach you both through "their" decisions. So resist the temptation to play God. Trust those humans to Him with your support, love, and compassion and watch the spiritual growth. Here's what Jeremiah 29:11 has to say for all of us: "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. Plans for good and not disaster, to give