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Tied Up In Dating
This week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose.
Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack:
🔥 Dating with intentionality
🔥 Sexual compatibility vs emotional compatibility
🔥 Why POC communities struggle with shame around kink
🔥 Respectability politics & hiding desires
🔥 Entry-level kinks for beginners
🔥 Navigating relationships with different kink levels
🔥 Communication, boundaries & consent
🔥 Why people ignore sexual incompatibility
🔥 Learning to fully own your desires without shame
This conversation gets honest, vulnerable, educational, and necessary — especially for people trying to navigate the kink dating scene while still protecting their emotional health and authenticity.
Whether you’re curious, experienced, questioning, or simply tired of surface-level dating conversations, this episode is for you.
🎙️ Watch now, subscribe, and join the conversation.
Welcome to FREAK’N SEE — where sexuality, kink, and intentional connection meet without shame.
#FreaknSee #KinkDating #BDSMCommunity #BlackQueerVoices #DatingWithIntention
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By Mr. DominusThis week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose.
Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack:
🔥 Dating with intentionality
🔥 Sexual compatibility vs emotional compatibility
🔥 Why POC communities struggle with shame around kink
🔥 Respectability politics & hiding desires
🔥 Entry-level kinks for beginners
🔥 Navigating relationships with different kink levels
🔥 Communication, boundaries & consent
🔥 Why people ignore sexual incompatibility
🔥 Learning to fully own your desires without shame
This conversation gets honest, vulnerable, educational, and necessary — especially for people trying to navigate the kink dating scene while still protecting their emotional health and authenticity.
Whether you’re curious, experienced, questioning, or simply tired of surface-level dating conversations, this episode is for you.
🎙️ Watch now, subscribe, and join the conversation.
Welcome to FREAK’N SEE — where sexuality, kink, and intentional connection meet without shame.
#FreaknSee #KinkDating #BDSMCommunity #BlackQueerVoices #DatingWithIntention