Summary of this Episode  

Time is a funny thing, one can learn from it, yet one can get lost within it. Even shake your head in disbelief as you learn more and more about behavior of humans.

In previous pod-casts, I have been sharing a situation with you all. Although this is not completed as yet, I have left that for a while and taken to share this situation that I have witnessed and it is closely associated with the previous podcasts. Like mentioned Time is a funny thing, I am totally shocked, hurt and really amazed at how people can be, and yet they believe they are been honest.

I have been researching Google, yeah Google is my aid, it helps me with my answers.

I looked up the word, Family, what it means. Many results came up, and basically all come up with the same meaning, so I decided to share my feeling of the word.

What family really means?

Family, that's a strong word. For me, it means to feel secure, to have someone who you can count on, who shares your problems. But it also means to have respect for each other and responsibility. Family is a really important word.

I then decided to look at the word Respect, what do we all understand about respect.. my feelings

Respect is a positive feeling or action shown towards someone or something considered important, or held in high esteem or regard; it conveys a sense of admiration for good or valuable qualities; and it is also the process of honoring someone by exhibiting care, concern, or consideration for their needs or feelings.

Responsibility, what does this mean? To me It means identifying and accepting the consequences—good or bad—of your decisions. Ultimately, it means considering how your actions will affect people and situations around you. Responsible behavior is made up of five essential elements—honesty, compassion/respect, fairness, accountability, and courage.

So having looked at these three words, Family, respect, responsibility, I wonder just how many apply this?

I was always brought up to respect, listen, love and ask and voice, yet in this modern world, we seem to rely on social media, taking people down to the pits in front of others and gosh I could go on and on with this method.

Why can’t people just ask? Why can’t one face a person and ask? Is it so hard to do this, or it is because, you don’t want to hear another side?.

Is it better to hear just one sided, it is easier to be one sided, well that not respect or any forms of responsibility to your family is it now?

Situations is not taking sides, its about listening to each problem, not trying to sort it out, you need to listen, you need to look at the situation with a open heart, and look at the pros and cons, from here you will see truth, and you are able to voice your option face to face, and if you ask and the person tell you listen to them, and remember you are also allowed to view your options of the problem. But please listen with a open heart and not a taking side part…