I have a few proposals:

"Stop trying; Let Him Be in You"

"Don't try to work it out; Let Him in and He will work out of you!"

"If you must DO something; then WORK intensely on the Unseen things!"

If any of those resonate, then listen & engage with this message delivered to some mighty men on a hill in the North Island of New Zealand.

Matthew 11:12 AMP

[12] And from the days of John the Baptist until the present time, the kingdom of heaven has endured violent assault, and violent men seize it by force as a precious prize--a share in the heavenly kingdom is sought with most ardent zeal and intense exertion.