Imagine that you've been invited to see a complicated sports game for the very first time. Like American Football for instance. In the beginning you don't know the rules, or objective of the game. So, for any of the action to make any sense to you, you need someone to sit down and explain the rules.

But instead of explaining the game, and help you understand what's really happening. All that your friends want to do is argue about who's going to win. You ask a question, and all you hear is Red Team or Blue Team will win, win, win!!!

Emotional, but not at all helpful.