This episode of TIPS comes the day after Valentine's, taking a closer look at the difference between love and control. In this episode, host Julia Vellucci explores stalking, coercive control, relationship safety, and why it’s important to recognize the warning signs that can sometimes be hidden behind grand gestures or intense affection. While healthy relationships are built on trust and respect, controlling behaviours, persistent unwanted contact, and manipulation can signal deeper safety concerns. Julia is joined by Emily Murray, legal director at Luke’s Place, who shares insight into how coercive control and stalking appear in real-life situations and why early recognition is critical. Julia also speaks with Dana Dignard, national director of communications for YWCA Canada, about the role communities play in fostering healthy relationships and supporting individuals who may be experiencing harm.