Sign up to save your podcasts
Or
Share Tired of people-pleasing? How to set boundaries that stick
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Or
Tired of people-pleasing? How to set boundaries that stick
Tired of saying yes? How setting boundaries can change everything - especially at the end of the year.
If you’re worn out from always trying to keep everyone else happy, it might be time to rethink your approach to saying yes.
In this episode, we’re cutting through the guilt and tackling why boundaries are so essential - especially for women over 40 who are ready to put their well-being first. Learn why saying no isn’t selfish, how people-pleasing can mess with your health - especially in perimenopause - and how setting boundaries can make the holidays (and every other day) more manageable.
Key Takeaways:
- Understand why people-pleasing is a hard habit to break: Discover how cultural conditioning and your own primal brain might be working against you, making “no” feel like the wrong answer - even when it’s exactly what you need.
- Learn the real costs of people-pleasing in perimenopause: Find out how always saying yes can damage your health, relationships, and self-worth, and why it’s essential to put yourself back on your own priority list.
- Get practical strategies for guilt-free boundaries and saying no: We’ll talk through how to start setting boundaries that feel right for you, with scripts and examples that make it easier to stand your ground without feeling guilty.
Sneak Peek
“It’s really important to know that you don’t make people feel the way that they feel. That is always their choice… Our thoughts around what’s happening create those feelings. So if someone reacts poorly to your boundary, it’s their thought about it - not your worth or value as a person.”
If you’re ready to hit the holidays without feeling burnt out, tune in to learn how setting boundaries can shift your perspective, your health, and your relationships this holiday season.
Listen to the full episode now and start setting boundaries that stick.
Links & resources mentioned in the episode:
- Episode 39 - Self-coaching
Send us a question for the FAQs segment or your feedback, we’d love to hear from you.
Find out more about Sarah, her services and the Freebies mentioned in this episode at https://www.ThePerimenopauseNaturopath.com.au
- The Perimenopause Decoder is the ultimate guide to understanding if perimenopause hormone fluctuations are behind your changing mood, metabolism and energy after 40, what phase of perimenopause you're in, and how much longer you may be on this roller coaster for.
- For more, follow on Instagram at @theperimenopausenaturopath.
WORK WITH SARAH THE PERIMENOPAUSE NATUROPATH:
- PerimenoGO (because who wants to pause anyway?!) A self-guided program to help you reverse weight gain, boost energy, and reclaim your mood — without extreme diets or cutting carbs. Perfect for women who want a realistic plan that fits around kids, work, and actual life.
- The Chaos to Calm Method: A 1:1 personalised program for women who want a more personalised plan and support — especially if you’ve got 10kg+ to lose, other health issues, or feel like your body’s just stuck. Includes comprehensive blood testing and analysis, Metabolic Balance ...
View all episodes
By Sarah McLachlanTired of saying yes? How setting boundaries can change everything - especially at the end of the year.
If you’re worn out from always trying to keep everyone else happy, it might be time to rethink your approach to saying yes.
In this episode, we’re cutting through the guilt and tackling why boundaries are so essential - especially for women over 40 who are ready to put their well-being first. Learn why saying no isn’t selfish, how people-pleasing can mess with your health - especially in perimenopause - and how setting boundaries can make the holidays (and every other day) more manageable.
Key Takeaways:
- Understand why people-pleasing is a hard habit to break: Discover how cultural conditioning and your own primal brain might be working against you, making “no” feel like the wrong answer - even when it’s exactly what you need.
- Learn the real costs of people-pleasing in perimenopause: Find out how always saying yes can damage your health, relationships, and self-worth, and why it’s essential to put yourself back on your own priority list.
- Get practical strategies for guilt-free boundaries and saying no: We’ll talk through how to start setting boundaries that feel right for you, with scripts and examples that make it easier to stand your ground without feeling guilty.
Sneak Peek
“It’s really important to know that you don’t make people feel the way that they feel. That is always their choice… Our thoughts around what’s happening create those feelings. So if someone reacts poorly to your boundary, it’s their thought about it - not your worth or value as a person.”
If you’re ready to hit the holidays without feeling burnt out, tune in to learn how setting boundaries can shift your perspective, your health, and your relationships this holiday season.
Listen to the full episode now and start setting boundaries that stick.
Links & resources mentioned in the episode:
- Episode 39 - Self-coaching
Send us a question for the FAQs segment or your feedback, we’d love to hear from you.
Find out more about Sarah, her services and the Freebies mentioned in this episode at https://www.ThePerimenopauseNaturopath.com.au
- The Perimenopause Decoder is the ultimate guide to understanding if perimenopause hormone fluctuations are behind your changing mood, metabolism and energy after 40, what phase of perimenopause you're in, and how much longer you may be on this roller coaster for.
- For more, follow on Instagram at @theperimenopausenaturopath.
WORK WITH SARAH THE PERIMENOPAUSE NATUROPATH:
- PerimenoGO (because who wants to pause anyway?!) A self-guided program to help you reverse weight gain, boost energy, and reclaim your mood — without extreme diets or cutting carbs. Perfect for women who want a realistic plan that fits around kids, work, and actual life.
- The Chaos to Calm Method: A 1:1 personalised program for women who want a more personalised plan and support — especially if you’ve got 10kg+ to lose, other health issues, or feel like your body’s just stuck. Includes comprehensive blood testing and analysis, Metabolic Balance ...