Force Shaping and Involuntary Separations - How to Handle Being Laid Off from the Military. The military is cutting their end strength across all branches of the military, including active duty, Guard, and Reserves. Find out how you can decrease the odds of being involuntarily let go, and what you can do if you are informed that you will lose your military job, including financial implications, benefits, civilian career options, transitioning to the Guard or Reserves, and how to handle it emotionally.