It's easy to settle for second best, when you don't know what you are looking for, or when you think you know - in my opinion, that's even worse. And then let's not even go down the route of choosing the wrong person because you lack self-confidence or because you think that's all you deserve.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://queenofshortromance.wordpress.com/2021/06/13/to-all-the-men-i-ever-loved/