In this episode of the Why, Dad? podcast, hosts Paul Wandrey and Andrew Stolpestad explore the profound question of whether to have children. They delve into the societal and personal implications of parenthood, discussing the joys and challenges of raising a family. The conversation touches on the importance of understanding one's motivations and the impact of children on personal growth and relationships. Through personal anecdotes and philosophical reflections, they aim to provide listeners with insights into the decision-making process surrounding parenthood.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why “should you have kids?” might be the wrong question
• Not feeling equipped and why that’s more normal than you think
• Fear of screwing kids up and what actually matters instead
• Freedom, travel, and how priorities shift across life seasons
• Why love alone isn’t enough without intention
• Purpose, responsibility, and choosing fatherhood consciously

Who this episode is for:

• Men on the fence about becoming dads
• Aspiring fathers thinking about the future
• Current dads reflecting on their why
• Anyone wrestling with purpose, commitment, and responsibility

Mentioned in this episode:

• The idea that reflection matters more than certainty
• The role of intention over perfection
• How community, uncles, mentors, and parents all shape kids