Whitney Merchant was nearing 40 when her life unraveled—within weeks, she experienced a divorce, the loss of her pets, and a sudden layoff. Searching for an outlet to process grief and rediscover herself, she made an unexpected decision: she signed up for a pole dancing class.

What began as a bold step outside her comfort zone evolved into a transformative journey of healing, confidence, and self-expression. In this episode, Whitney shares how embracing curiosity helped her reconnect with her body, explore feminine embodiment, and move through one of the most challenging seasons of her life.

We discuss the emotional and physical power of pole dancing, the courage it takes to try something new in midlife, and how women can rewrite limiting narratives about aging, confidence, and sexuality.

Whitney’s story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself—and that sometimes the smallest step into the unknown can open the door to profound personal growth.

This episode is part of the Women Who Did series within the To Your Health podcast—a series about real women who followed through on something important to them and what that experience taught them, so other women can see what’s possible for themselves.

Whitney Merchant helps women reclaim the parts of themselves they were taught to quiet: their desire, their intuition, and their unapologetic feminine presence. Her approach is traumainformed, body-based, and outrageously liberating.

Whitney has taught internationally alongside esteemed teachers such as Sheila Kelley, Tony Robbins, and Heather Ash Amara, and holds a degree in English and French Literature from UCLA.

Her own healing journey as a sexual trauma survivor is what drives her to create the kind of safe, transformative space where embodied change is not just possible, but deeply felt.https://www.whitneymerchant.com/

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Melanie Michaelchuk spent nearly 30 years thinking about climbing Mount Kilimanjaro before she finally decided to go for it. When she committed, she didn’t have perfect timing, unlimited resources, or peak fitness—she had doubts, obstacles, and a goal she couldn’t ignore any longer.

In this conversation, Melanie shares what it actually looked like to follow through, from rebuilding her fitness step by step to navigating the very real fears and logistics of traveling alone and doing something far outside her comfort zone.

We talk about why so many women put their goals on hold, how to start even when nothing feels fully in place, and the power of deciding “if not now, then when.”

Plus, Melanie shares how accomplishing this one goal changed the way she approaches everything else in her life—and why she now focuses on staying ready so she can say yes to whatever comes next.

Melanie Michaelchuk is a hiking coach, author, and Mount Kilimanjaro summiteer who helps women build confidence through movement and outdoor adventure. She is the founder of Just Hyke, host of the Just Hyke Podcast, and author of Sidewalk to Summit, inspiring women to take the first step toward their own big goals. https://www.linkedin.com/in/melanie-michaelchuk

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Morgan joins me to share her journey from battling an eating disorder as a teenager to becoming an ultramarathoner, author, and mom committed to modeling a healthy relationship with food and fitness.

We talk about what recovery really looked like after inpatient treatment in 2010, how her struggles evolved in college and early adulthood, and the surprising mindset shift that happened when she began training for her first 50-mile race.

Morgan also opens up about the role her stepmom and husband played in her healing, what it means to fuel your body for performance instead of shrinking it, and why raising a daughter has deepened her commitment to living in alignment with her values.

Morgan is an ultramarathoner, Navy wife, mom, and eating disorder survivor. Connect with her on Instagram at @morganleeb_

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Kara shares how starting a simple book club during a season when she barely had an hour to herself became a source of connection, identity, and momentum during frequent moves and overwhelming stages of motherhood.

We talk about what it actually looks like to build community from scratch, why book clubs work so well for adults craving deeper connection, and how reading can be a surprisingly powerful alternative to screens, small talk, and default social habits.

Kara also walks through how that first book club eventually led to a podcast, author interviews, speaking opportunities, and a renewed sense of confidence—without any grand plan at the start.

Kara Infante is the creator and host of the top-rated Bookish Flights podcast. Kara believes we all have a story to tell. That story can be told by our favorite books. She is a passionate believer that books are a wonderful way to foster friendships and community. She is a military spouse that lives in San Diego, California with her husband and three children. When she is not busy creating or reading, you would most likely find her outside exploring with family and friends.

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Content note: This episode includes discussion of emotional abuse and coercive control, which may be difficult for some listeners. Please take care as you listen.

After 29 years in a marriage marked by covert narcissism, control, and emotional abuse, Mia made the decision to leave and start over. She shares what life was really like behind closed doors, why leaving felt so complicated, and what it took to reclaim her agency, confidence, and sense of capability on the other side.

I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse. I was married to a covert narcissist for 29 years and in 2024 I published an award winning memoir titled Bride-Made. I am passionate about raising awareness of narcissism and helping other victims find their voices. www.miajhanks.com TikTok- @npdandme IG- @npd.andme

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Zoe Price, CEO of Resume Pilots, joins me to share why she chose to buy an existing business instead of starting one from scratch. We talk about how she discovered buying a business was even an option, what appealed to her about stepping into something already established, and what the process actually looked like.

Zoe also shares the less talked-about realities of business ownership, including decision fatigue, the lack of a safety net, and the mistakes she’s had to make to learn and grow into the CEO role.

Zoe Price is a career strategist and CEO of Resume Pilots. After rebuilding her own career, she now supports experienced women in midlife who feel stuck, ignored, or undervalued at work. Her work focuses on career visibility, confidence, and helping capable professionals move forward when the traditional career rules stop working. This includes modern positioning, LinkedIn optimization, job search strategies and interview coaching.

Website: https://www.resumepilots.com/

Email: [email protected]

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cvandresumepilots/

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Tammie joins me for a candid conversation about earning her master’s degree at 50 while working full time, managing ADHD, and parenting kids in different stages of leaving the nest.

We talk honestly about what the experience was actually like — finding a program that fit real life, being twice the age of most classmates, managing the mental load, and staying connected to herself while pursuing a demanding goal.

Tammie also shares why finishing didn’t come with a dramatic life shift, but did bring a deeper sense of confidence, validation, and trust in her ability to do hard things when the outcome matters.

As a coach of 18 years, I bring a mix of practical and woo, strategy and mindset, to help go-getter women feel better faster by helping them go after goals that align with their purpose. They learn how to say yes to the life they want to live and no to burnout, guilt, and people-pleasing.

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In hindsight, Edie can see the warning signs leading up to her heart attack. But in the moment, the self-described workaholic finished her drive home, called work to cancel clients, and only then headed to the hospital.

At 55, despite exercising regularly, Edie survived heart attack that forced her to confront the cost of chronic stress, sleep deprivation, and unrelenting responsibility.

In this episode, Edie shares what recovery really looked like—physically, emotionally, and psychologically—and how learning to rest, set boundaries, and accept support quite literally changed (and saved) her life.

Her story is one of resilience, reckoning, and redefining what it means to take care of yourself, especially for women who are used to carrying everything.

Edie Weinstein, MSW, LSW is a licensed social worker, psychotherapist, interfaith minister, journalist, speaker and the founder of Hugmobsters Armed with Love. www.opti-mystical.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/snuggleyoga/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/edie-weinstein-b8a7b44/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/edieweinstein/

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The To Your Health podcast is kicking off a new series called Women Who Did, featuring everyday women who followed through on something meaningful, not because they’re extraordinary, but because they decided to try.

In this short intro episode, I share why I stepped away from expert interviews, how this idea came together, and what surprised me most when I asked women to nominate themselves (spoiler: almost no one thought their accomplishments were “big enough”).

This series is about showing what’s possible when regular women commit, follow through, and stop downplaying what they’ve done. And maybe inspiring you to do the same

Tune in each week for practical, relatable advice that helps you feel your best and unlock your full potential. If you’re ready to prioritize your health and level up every area of your life, you’ll find the tools, insights, and inspiration right here. 

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Paul Quinn joins me to talk about why asking for what you want feels so uncomfortable for so many people—and how much we leave on the table because of it. We explore the idea of the “big ask,” why people often want to be asked more than we realize, and how clarity and respect can completely change the outcome of a request.

Paul shares real-life stories that show how asking can strengthen relationships, open doors, and help us better understand our own needs.

We also talk about how to handle hearing “no” without taking it personally, and why asking is empowering even when the answer isn’t yes.

Paul Quinn's career spans professional acting, corporate writing and training, and executive presentation coaching. He writes The Big Ask Blog and is the author of the recently released book, "The Big Ask: Unlock the Possibilities in Your Work, Life & Dreams with Courageous Requests." In it, he shares inspiring lessons and true stories that reveal how learning to ask--boldly and smartly--can unlock extraordinary opportunities.Check out his website: bigaskbook.comConnect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-quinn-bigaskbook/
Tune in each week for practical, relatable advice that helps you feel your best and unlock your full potential. If you’re ready to prioritize your health and level up every area of your life, you’ll find the tools, insights, and inspiration right here. 

Check out Esther’s website for more about her speaking, coaching, book, and more: http://estheravant.com/

Buy Esther’s Book: To Your Health: https://a.co/d/iDG68qU

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