This podcast was the inception of what will later become my most successful TEDx talk ''The Upside of Losing Momentum''. When life comes down crushing on us, we easily fall into a vicious circle of self-victimization also known as ''The why me''. While we blame and curse earth and haven by singling us out and bringing us misery, we forget that everybody has its torn but most importantly that seed grows in the dark of earth. Right before it multiplies, it has to lose momentum and die.