**Patreon Episode - Visuals***
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In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations.
We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why setting emotional traps (even unintentionally) never ends well.
💥 This episode dives deep into:
Why blaming your partner never works
Talking through conflict without pointing fingers
Taking ownership (even when it’s not your fault… but it kinda is)
Ego vs. understanding: what makes or breaks a healthy fight
A hilarious and chaotic story about makeup, candy, and a hyped-up Yorkie Poo
🗓 Plus: updates on our live podcast salon with Queer News & E3 Radio, a Black-owned BBQ spotlight, pop culture recs (hello Love on the Spectrum), and the Netflix show we won’t be recommending.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro Vibes & Theme Song Love
01:00 – Life Updates: Work, Tiredness & The Coaching Mindset
04:00 – Condo Water Drama & Editing Woes
08:00 – Podcast Salon Announcement (April 25 at Affinity Community Center!)
10:00 – Coming Out Over Brunch: The Update We've All Been Waiting For
14:00 – Date Night Diaries: Art Shows, Fashion & Permanent Jewelry
17:00 – Korean BBQ and Food Talk
18:00 – Black-Owned Business Spotlight: Sanders BBQ in Beverly
22:00 – Pop Culture: Love on the Spectrum Praise + Balloon Show Flop
29:00 – Main Topic: The Blame Game
32:00 – Storytime: Koda + Candy + Chaos
37:00 – Therapy Talk: Accountability vs. Attack
45:00 – Emotional Ownership & Growth
50:00 – Grudges, Cycles, and Female Ego Navigation
56:00 – Storytime Tangents & Takeaways
60:00 – Take It or Leave It
✨ Takeaways & Talking Points:
How to approach blame with empathy and humor
Why ego has no place in conflict resolution
Creating safe space for feedback, even during emotional triggers
Learning from past relationships to protect what you have now
🔗 Mentions:
🎧 Queer News and E3 Radio
🍗 Sanders BBQ – Beverly, Chicago
📺 Love on the Spectrum (Netflix)
🚫 That Netflix Balloon Show (you’ll see...)
📣 Join the Patreon:
Want the visuals, behind-the-scenes laughs, and our chaotic energy in 4K? Subscribe to our Patreon for early access, bonus content, and exclusive couple convos: 👉 patreon.com/togetherrealbad
