Toke & Trans

In this episode of Toke & Trans, we’re serving up a Thanksgiving Throwback (aka Dinner Day) with a side of Queer Tips to help you survive — and maybe even enjoy — “Dinner-Day.”

From chaotic family memories to navigating those interesting holiday conversations, we’re breaking down what it really feels like to show up as your queer, trans self during the season of togetherness.

We share our own stories, offer practical tips for staying grounded, setting boundaries, and protecting your peace, and give you the toolkit you need to make it through the holidays without losing your mind (or your appetite).

Whether you're spending the day with family, chosen family, or just vibing on your own, this one’s for you.

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

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TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

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There were a few signs that stuck out to us that we might have been a little different than others while we navigated our way through elementary school, middle school, and high school. Here are the standout moments for us!

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Join our Halloween Episode where we talk about what we’ve been in our childhood and recently and our upcoming plans! 

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Hear Aaron & Beau's experiences as they look back on their journey prepping for top surgery. PART 2

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Hear Aaron & Beau's experiences as they look back on their journey prepping for top surgery. PART 2

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Get to know Kayla with some intros, Beau reading Kayla's Birth Chart, and she answers questions about herself and her relationship!

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallyaaronc_

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/officiallyaaronc/

Website ► https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

In this heartfelt episode, hosts Aaron and Beau dive into the challenges and triumphs of navigating today's tumultuous social landscape as trans individuals. They share personal stories of resilience, discuss the importance of self-care, and explore how to maintain meaningful connections in a world that often feels overwhelming. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation filled with laughter, tears, and a reminder that you're never alone. #TransVoices #SelfCare #CommunityStrength 

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallyaaronc_

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/officiallyaaronc/

Website ► https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

While Aaron knows nothing about natal charts, Beau has all the knowledge and reads his chart to see how accurate it is. Do you think his chart hit? 🤔

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallyaaronc_

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/officiallyaaronc/

Website ► https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Expect plenty of laughs, honest perspectives, and some surprising takes as we respond to Reddit’s latest advice-worthy moments. Whether you love scrolling r/Trans, r/FTM, or just enjoy real talk and good storytelling, this episode has something for you.

Tune in for a mix of humor, heart, and authentic trans perspectives from the internet’s favorite advice hub.

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallyaaronc_

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/officiallyaaronc/

Website ► https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS

Most importantly, Beau’s story reminds us that gender is not a one-way street or a box to fit into — it’s a personal journey that deserves patience, compassion, and freedom to evolve.

Whether you’re questioning your own identity, supporting someone you love, or just curious to learn more about gender fluidity, this episode is filled with honesty, insight, and hope.

#TokeAndTrans #GenderJourney #GenderFluidity #TransPodcast

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BEAU DUBOIS: @_beau.jpg

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/_beau.jpg/

AARON CAPENER: @officiallyaaronc_

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@officiallyaaronc_

Instagram ► https://www.instagram.com/officiallyaaronc/

Website ► https://www.officiallyaaron.com/links

FB Group ► https://www.facebook.com/groups/lonewolfdistrict

TOKE&TRANS: @toke&trans

YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/@tokeandtrans

TikTok ► https://www.tiktok.com/@TOKEandTRANS