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Being good at solitude was supposed to be the goal. So why does it sometimes feel like danger?Dani applied for a live reading with a question a lot of people type into search bars and never say out loud: what if I get too comfortable being alone, and what if I never find anyone because of it? Her best friend moved abroad. The old friendships faded. The new ones didn't take. And the comfort she found in her own company started to scare her.My honest answer has nothing to do with fixing her. When you genuinely change, the friendships built on the old formula stop fitting, even if the formula still works for the other person. Nobody did anything wrong. You did not lose the friendship skill. You changed in good ways, and you have not yet built the skill of finding the friends who match the new version of you. That skill comes with time, and the less you worry about being alone forever, the faster the transition moves.If your old friendships have been quietly expiring and the new ones have not shown up yet, this one is for you. And if you are on the other side of this season, tell her what it looked like when the new people finally arrived. Someone reading needs that today.Get your free seven-section numerology chart and monthly forecasts at Teledipity, and use it the way I actually intend it: as one perspective, not your master. https://teledipity.com/openWatch Teledipity LIVE every Wednesday. Apply for a free live reading at teledipity.com/live.If this hit home, watch this next: https://youtu.be/nibc7NfstxA#Friendship #Loneliness #BeingAlone #Numerology #Teledipity
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Being good at solitude was supposed to be the goal. So why does it sometimes feel like danger?Dani applied for a live reading with a question a lot of people type into search bars and never say out loud: what if I get too comfortable being alone, and what if I never find anyone because of it? Her best friend moved abroad. The old friendships faded. The new ones didn't take. And the comfort she found in her own company started to scare her.My honest answer has nothing to do with fixing her. When you genuinely change, the friendships built on the old formula stop fitting, even if the formula still works for the other person. Nobody did anything wrong. You did not lose the friendship skill. You changed in good ways, and you have not yet built the skill of finding the friends who match the new version of you. That skill comes with time, and the less you worry about being alone forever, the faster the transition moves.If your old friendships have been quietly expiring and the new ones have not shown up yet, this one is for you. And if you are on the other side of this season, tell her what it looked like when the new people finally arrived. Someone reading needs that today.Get your free seven-section numerology chart and monthly forecasts at Teledipity, and use it the way I actually intend it: as one perspective, not your master. https://teledipity.com/openWatch Teledipity LIVE every Wednesday. Apply for a free live reading at teledipity.com/live.If this hit home, watch this next: https://youtu.be/nibc7NfstxA#Friendship #Loneliness #BeingAlone #Numerology #Teledipity