Initiate don’t hesitate… “So slide over here; And give me a moment; Your moves are so raw; I've got to let you know; I've got to let you know; You're one of my kind…”

“Honestly, do you really even need a list?” so said my 20 yr old daughter!

Be open to change and creativity.

Build excitement and anticipation.

Serve up a five star meal, meat and potatoes or a fast food meal.

Enjoy sex with him, because he truly desires your pleasure too!

Stop criticizing him for being a man, sex is not just for pleasure, it is also his way to bond with you and connect emotionally.

Leave the lights on for a possible change, men tend to be visually stimulated.

Be affirming.

Plan sex.  That’s right, talk with your husband and discover how many times he’d enjoy having sex in a month and what kinds of things he enjoys.