Welcome to episode #1 of Touchy Feely, where we dive into the modern sex education we didn't get growing up. I'm Lauren, your host and the founder of BerryLemon, a sexual wellness company.
In today's episode, we have an enlightening conversation with one of my sexual wellness heroes Dr. Laurie Mintz. She’s a human sexuality professor, licensed psychologist, and certified sex therapist.
Dr. Laurie is the author of two essential books: Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.
- Shocking Statistics: Did you know that in hookup sex, only 10% of women say they orgasm compared to 77% of men? Or that around 70% of women have faked an orgasm at least once? And that around 96% of women can’t reliably orgasm from penetration alone? Dr. Laurie Mintz helps us understand these staggering statistics and what they mean for women's sexual wellness.
Cultural Influences: Explore why the current cultural landscape around sex is failing women and how societal norms and misinformation contribute to the orgasm gap.Importance of Clitoral Stimulation: Learn why clitoral stimulation is crucial for women's sexual pleasure and how it is often overlooked.Vibrators and Sexual Satisfaction: Discover the role of vibrators in enhancing sexual experiences, supported by empirical research showing that women who use vibrators have easier and more frequent orgasms.Practical Advice: Dr. Laurie shares practical tips and actionable advice for achieving more fulfilling sexual experiences, including the importance of self-exploration and communication with partners.Empowerment: Discover how to shift your mindset towards pleasure equality and embrace a more fulfilling sexual life.Homework Assignments For Becoming More Cliterate:
- Buy some lube and a vibrator and use it on your own.
Develop a mindfulness practice and apply it to the bedroom.Have a sit-down talk with your partner about getting the clitoral stimulation you need.- Dr. Laurie Mintz's books:
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BerryLemon Instagram: @berrylemonvibesWe love hearing from our listeners! Share your thoughts on this episode, or suggest future topics by emailing us at [email protected].
00:00 Introduction: The Orgasm Gap
00:49 Special Guest: Dr. Laurie Mintz
01:50 Understanding the Orgasm Gap
05:03 Cultural Influences on Female Pleasure
10:48 The Importance of Clitoral Stimulation
18:19 Masturbation and Self-Pleasure
26:29 Mindful Sex and Final Thoughts
31:10 Conclusion and Special Offer