In this episode of Active Listening, we dive into the essential question of why some individuals push themselves to their limits while others of equal intelligence do not. Research suggests that the defining quality shared by high achievers is grit, defined as "perseverance and passion for long-term goals". While standardized tests like the SAT are useful, studies indicate that grit and self-discipline are actually better predictors of success in college than IQ or test scores

We explore how educators can move beyond simply praising talent—which can actually harm student motivation—and instead foster a growth mindset

You will hear about the importance of teaching students that confusion and mistakes are a normal, expected part of the learning process rather than a sign of failure

This episode also examines the role of "tough love" in higher education. We discuss how creating a quality learning environment requires faculty to:

• Set high expectations that challenge students to move beyond their comfort zones
• Avoid "enabling behaviors" that create dependency, such as intervening too quickly when a student struggles
• Manage short-term failure so it serves as a catalyst for growth and long-term goal directedness
• Utilize peer interaction and common vocabulary to build a culture of character and resilience

Ultimately, student success is not an entitlement; it must be earned. By teaching students how to regulate their attention and emotions through deliberate practice, we empower them to reach their full potential.

To understand the necessity of high expectations, consider the high jumper: if an athlete successfully clears a bar at six feet, the coach must raise it to six feet and six inches to motivate a better performance

In the same way, academic excellence requires us to raise the bar for our students, providing them with the "stamina" to clear it.

This episode is based on the following sources:

• Faculty Guidebook 3.1.8 Letting Students Fail So They Can Succeed (by Jim Hadley) https://www.facultyguidebook.com/fgb/efgb4/modules/3/3_1_8.htm
• Developing Grit In Our Students: Why Grit is Such a Desirable Trait, and Practical Strategies for Teachers and Schools (by Jennifer Bashant) https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1081394.pdf