Dealing with toxic people whether it be friendship,  relationship, or family member can be a strain on you.  You want to help heal that person but that person has to heal themselves and a lot of people keep pain  and a dark cloud inside them and over their heads and when they get  involved with  good hearted people they exude that negative energy onto them. Misery loves company so instead of being happy all the time they find things to complain about to make everybody’s life miserable they don’t wanna be happy they think they wanna be happy but in all actuality 

 they don’t.  They never wanna see you happy the minute they see you happy they want to destroy that happiness it’s narcissistic as well. Here’s a under 10 minutes podcast talking about it briefly. we’ll get more in debt with this tropic on my future podcast episodes with guest.