Drinks After Work with Shannon and Deb

Toxic Boxes and Temper Tantrums

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Pop the tab on something cold and settle in — it's time for another round of Drinks After Work!

 

This time, we're talking all about:
  • The toxic boss profiles you'll recognize immediately (the temper-tantrum thrower, the spotlight hog, the gaslighter, the rule-maker)
  • Triangulation — when your boss talks about you instead of to you
  • How toxic bosses are literally making employees sick (it's not just stress, it's chronic health damage)
  • Why HR's "engagement surveys" are missing the point entirely
  • The waterfall effect of bad bosses creating more bad bosses
  • How to protect yourself when you're stuck under one

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    In this episode, Shannon and Deborah break down the science (and the pettiness) behind toxic bosses. The article they reference says 75% of workers think their boss is the most stressful part of their workday — and that stress doesn't stay at work. It follows you home, wrecks your weekends, and shows up in your body. They share their own war stories with triangulation, gaslighting, write-ups built on twisted conversations, and bosses who demand spotlight while making you do their work. But this isn't just a vent session — they get into how to actually protect yourself: document everything (on a personal device), bring facts over feelings, and don't go in hot unless you've got another gig in the shadows.

     

    So sip, swig, or chug — and get ready to:
    • Recognize the toxic boss profiles before they wreck your health
    • Document everything on a personal device (not the work computer)
    • Lead with facts over feelings when escalating to HR
    • Throw their own expectations back at them when they don't follow their own rules
    • Take advantage of ethics hotlines and anonymous reporting if you have them
    • Protect your mental and physical health — this is a ripple effect

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      Because it wouldn't be Drinks After Work without the drinks, here are the FAB:
      Deborah: Cooper's Hawk Moscato — Floral, sweet, with hints of peach, melon, and orange blossom.
      Shannon: Classic Mojito — Rum, lime, mint, sugar, and a few pieces of fresh fruit for spring.

       

      Find all our drink recipes and more at our website.
       
      Resources:
      • Forbes: Toxic Bosses Are Making Employees Sick—And The Evidence Is Impossible To Ignore
      • Harvard Business Review: Stop Making Excuses for Toxic Bosses
      • Workplace Assessments -
        • Korn Ferry
        • McKinsey
        • Gallup
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          Hosts: Shannon Tipton & Deborah Harris
           
          Podcast produced by: Obsidian Productions
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          Drinks After Work with Shannon and DebBy Shannon Tipton