Building on last week's conversation, Laura and I discuss how growing up with a narcissistic parent or parents has shaped our identity, self-expression, and ways of relating with the world. We also trace the incidents or behaviour that led us to conclude that our parents could have narcissistic tendencies or traits. As awareness about mental illness is a recent phenomenon, we reflect on how undiagnosed conditions play out as narcissism;  and how victims of narcissistic abuse pick up traits and behaviour from their abusers. Feel free to chime in with your experience on our Instagram account @splittinghairskenya!