Clark Griswold dreamed of a fun, old fashioned, family Christmas only to have his dreams shattered by uninvited relatives, a stingy boss, and Christmas lights that didn't work. To a certain extent we all have an idea of how Christmas is supposed to go, don’t we? Have you ever wondered where this “idea” of how things are supposed to go came from? And then how do we handle it when things don’t go as we think they “should”?