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 This week my gurl Brenda talk about finding your place, building community and finding yourself. 

Summary/Time Stamps: 

• Welcome to this week’s episode of. 0:05
• Common courtesy has gone out of the window. 4:31
• When you move to a new place, it’s difficult to form a community. 9:46
• Loss of opportunity and loss of connection. 14:25
• Children are supposed to listen to the stories our elders give us. 21:54
• It’s human nature to want to know things and to feel like you owe people an explanation. 27:48
• How to deal with unsolicited dick pics. 31:43
• Transgender people don’t have to look a certain way to be transgender. 36:17
• What made you do top surgery and not breast reduction? 41:04
• Can it just be kids issues and not trans issues? 43:00
• What are we doing putting stuff in kids’ bodies that we don’t know enough about? 48:02
• The hierarchy that exists in the transgender community. 52:43
• You don’t have to like every person. 57:16
• Don’t take over issues for any group of people. 1:05:15
• What’s next for you? Hormones. 1:10:36
• What’s next for Brando? 1:15:39
• Burning Man is like the ultimate life hangover. 1:21:16
• Burning Man Regionals. 1:26:32

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