In this episode of Deep Dive we look at the stages of development and spiritual growth. , exploring how children's book author DiCamillo, theologians Tillich and Foweler and developmental psychiologist Donald Winnicott's psychoanalytic concept of a "Transitional Object" can illuminate our understanding of religious faith. The author posits that external objects and rituals in spirituality function similarly to a child's transitional object, offering comfort, security, and a bridge between inner experience and external reality during the nascent stages of spiritual development. It discusses the importance of these "skillful means" in fostering spiritual growth, drawing parallels with Buddhist parables like the raft and the magic city, while also cautioning against over-reliance or mistaking these external forms for the ultimate goal of awakening. Ultimately, the text suggests that these spiritual tools are vital for maturation, helping individuals cultivate inner understanding while eventually learning when to transcend their initial dependence on external aids.