Success Suite

Trapped Emotion


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‘We can all put on a mask but sometimes the truth has to be shown’ 

In this very honest episode, Julie shares how she is beginning to come to terms with the void she currently has. 

There are no coincidences, everything happens for a reason and Julie shares how as a result of being on social media she has had the opportunity to work on her trapped emotions with someone who she has been able to connect with on a deeper level. 

We all respond to a void whether it’s a time void or a person void, in different ways and in this very candid episode Julie puts a voice to the emotions and actions that many experience. She also shines a light on the way forward because there are no coincidences, everything happens for a reason so if you have found this episode it is maybe your reason, why you can start to fill your void. 

  

KEY TAKEAWAYS 

Filling the void 

  • When something changes or something leaves our life a void is created 
  • Who we are is who we are, who we be is who we be 
  • If we can work with our unconscious if we can change our beliefs, change our systems whether we are a manager, leader a mother father whatever we are if we don’t have the life we want we can change it and to change it we have to work with ourselves internally 
  • Not everybody fits everybody but we can all support each other. 

Trapped emotion 

  • A void had opened and  helplessness had filled it 
  • I didn’t know what to do with my self 
  • I’ve been identified as holding onto several different emotions including helplessness, terror and rejection 
  • I’m now working on my trapped emotion and the feeling of helplessness is reducing 

Hurt people hurt 

  • Not only do we hurt externally when we are hurting we also hurt ourselves. 
  • If you are hurting yourself it’s because you are hurt. 
  • Think about what you are doing and why you doing it. 
  • The hurt can be repaired it doesn’t have to stay with you. 
  • It can all be amended and repaired the void filled with constructive use of your time 
  • If you lack the belief you can create the belief if you lack the confidence you can build the confidence if you don’t want to be in a job you don’t have to be you can go out and control your life. 

Is your ego getting in the way? 

  • As managers and leaders, we destroy lives if we don’t do it right and we create wonderful lives for people when we do it well 
  • Not everybody wants to be their own boss so for those who want to have a job it’s important they have a positive experience. 
  • You can work to get to your ego out of the way. 

  

BEST MOMENTS 

‘I’m sad because Mum’s not here but Mum is where Mum wants to be’ 

‘I’ve always been told I’m a strong woman and come from a family of strong women but when thought carefully I realised  a void had opened and  helplessness had filled it 

‘I believe in generational thinking I believe that what’s gone on before comes down through the generations’ 

 

VALUABLE RESOURCES 

The Life-Changing Magic of Setting Goals book by Julie Hogbin   

The Authorities - Julie Hogbin: Powerful Wisdom from Leaders in the field book by Julie Hogbin, Raymond Aaron, Marci Shimoff, Dr John Gray 

The Disruptive Entrepreneur Podcast 

  

ABOUT THE HOST 

Julie Hogbin 

  

I started my career within the accountancy profession, moving on into auditing, then Learning & Development where I have spent over 30 years. 

  

In 2011 I threw everything up in the air and became a property investor via forex, trading and learning how to build websites & internet market whilst walking on fire 😊 

  

I have worked with over 20,000 Leaders at every level of Management and Leadership for over 30+ years. In the latter years working with CEOs, SMTs, boards of trustees & Entrepreneurs. 

  

I have worked with the public, the private and the entrepreneurial sectors of the market. The Leadership messages are the same across the sectors – the application may be different but all are Business’ where Conscious and Principled Leadership reaps rewards for all parties concerned. 

  

I work with the human element of Business and my passion is enabling others to be the best they can be through providing them with the information they need to be more effective than they currently are. Unleashing potential and providing knowledge enabling the best decisions to be made for the Business, the Employee, the Leader (themselves) their families and the greater social economy. 

  

I am a Coach, a Mentor (and I know the difference) Trainer, Author, property investor and public speaker 

  

I love to travel, sunshine, smiley people, intelligent conversation, laughter, learning, networking, supporting others, property as a business, investigating ‘stuff’ problem solving, asking questions that make people think, creating aha moments, gardening and flowers and being outside. 

  

CONTACT METHOD 

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Conscious Leadership YouTube 

 

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