When men come to the manosphere and find the red pill it’s usually because of one of 2 reasons or both. It’s either heartbreak, sexual frustration, or a combination of both.

So they take the red pill, digest it, and start putting it into practice. They’re a little better with women so they’re having a little more success and at some point they’re all faced with a decision as to whether or not to spend money on a woman.

Now we all know that you should never spend money on a woman if she doesn’t deserve it because red pill awareness teaches us that. When you arrange a meetup with this girl or that, you take her out for drinks and when you get to the bar you say “You get the first round, I’ll get the next”. If you go to the movies it’s “You buy the tickets, I’ll get the snacks” You get the idea.

But if things start to get serious with a particular female, the math has the potential to change a little bit and girls are well aware of this. There’s a big difference in taking a woman out to dinner on the first date (which is something you should NEVER do in the first place) and taking her out to celebrate your 6 month anniversary. There’s a big difference between giving your woman your time in the beginning as opposed to giving her your time AND attention 7 or 8 months into a relationship.

A lot of men get tripped up at this point and if women see that he’s not sure how to handle the financial aspect of a relationship that could get serious, she’ll start to take advantage of him whether she knows it or not. It’s in their nature. It might not start out that way….she might really like you but if you show any ineptitude as far as recognizing the difference between tricking and investing is concerned, she will eventually turn you into a trick.

So tonight at 7EST/4PST I’m going to talk about the difference between the two and I’m going to be giving you plenty of real world examples to drive the point home. See you tonight.