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Healthy lust is good, the flesh is good, healthy pride is good, and I enjoy nonbelievers (in life and if there’s an afterlife, I’ll enjoy the afterlife with nonbelievers.) “Inner peace (or peace of mind) refers to a deliberate state of psychological or spiritual calm despite the potential presence of stressors. Being "at peace" is considered by many to be healthy (homeostasis) and the opposite of being stressed or anxious, and is considered to be a state where our mind performs at an optimal level with positive outcomes. Peace of mind is thus generally associated with bliss, happiness, and contentment.” I no longer feel possessed by sexual tension and I’m not ruled by “sexually transmitted diseases.” Some of the women who pulled up on me in my collegiate career were elderly women and young women with shapely builds, the sex happened, and yes, trauma complexes were the reason why for that time in my life. A few of the men I was with were sex workers (free sex 💯 of the time, and it was definitely short-lived.)
I’m not saying that elderly women, middle-aged women and young women, elderly men, middle-aged men, young men, non-binary persons, BIPOC, and LGBTQIA+ can’t have healthy sex lives (they do have healthy sex lives.) I attended gentlemen’s clubs, bars, and nightclubs as a college student. I refrain from glorifying the fact that some men tried to keep the women in their lives (relatives, life partners, spouses, colleagues, acquaintances, etc.) from meeting me, but it didn’t pan out that way.) The sex happened including the freaky sexual contests and freaky contacting. I’m a sex-positive person who is free of sexual hypocrisy. Sexual brokenness and brokenness in general no longer reign supreme in my life. I was forced to be vice president of many organized crime syndicates so I was forced to approve of decisions that I despise.
I did have women partners (some young women, some middle-aged women with curvy figures, and some elderly women with curvy figures. I am not proud of vacationing at resorts and having lodging with the ones who were married and the rest who were in unmarried, but serious relationships. All of the ones in exclusive relationships were in bad relationships, so meeting the positive people in their lives and the rest keeping toxic people in their lives from me was a traumatic response. In my college years, I had men partners (young men, middle-aged men with toned builds, and elderly men with toned builds.) I am not proud of being intimate with the ones who were married, and the rest who were in unmarried, but serious relationships. Again, all of the ones in exclusive relationships were in bad relationships, so meeting the positive people in their lives and the rest keeping toxic people in their lives from me was their traumatic response too. We were all trauma survivors trying to heal ourselves and each other but did so in all unethical ways unintentionally speaking. We never purposefully ruined each other's lives. We didn't know how to be fully appropriate to the concept of healing and being wholesome individuals. The codependency, coddling, and enabling were unintentional. I am a live-and-let-live, do no harm principled, type of person regarding people's professional relationships and personal relationships. Everything thought, said, done, and felt should be free of trauma complexes and criminality. Gender and sexuality diversity is beautiful, I am a sex-positive movement person, I am for sex workers’ rights, and I am into sex-positive feminism. I have wholesome sex with wholesome people in moderation. I don’t sleep with unwholesome people at all. Sexual health matters to me. Sanity and self-respect matter to me too! I’m not a sexual moralist in the traditionalist sense and I am not the type of person who is the sex police. I don’t glorify adultery, but I don’t destroy the humanity of those who commit adultery (that’s my healthy middle-ground.) I comprehend that adultery is a multi-dimensional process.
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By Antonio MyersHealthy lust is good, the flesh is good, healthy pride is good, and I enjoy nonbelievers (in life and if there’s an afterlife, I’ll enjoy the afterlife with nonbelievers.) “Inner peace (or peace of mind) refers to a deliberate state of psychological or spiritual calm despite the potential presence of stressors. Being "at peace" is considered by many to be healthy (homeostasis) and the opposite of being stressed or anxious, and is considered to be a state where our mind performs at an optimal level with positive outcomes. Peace of mind is thus generally associated with bliss, happiness, and contentment.” I no longer feel possessed by sexual tension and I’m not ruled by “sexually transmitted diseases.” Some of the women who pulled up on me in my collegiate career were elderly women and young women with shapely builds, the sex happened, and yes, trauma complexes were the reason why for that time in my life. A few of the men I was with were sex workers (free sex 💯 of the time, and it was definitely short-lived.)
I’m not saying that elderly women, middle-aged women and young women, elderly men, middle-aged men, young men, non-binary persons, BIPOC, and LGBTQIA+ can’t have healthy sex lives (they do have healthy sex lives.) I attended gentlemen’s clubs, bars, and nightclubs as a college student. I refrain from glorifying the fact that some men tried to keep the women in their lives (relatives, life partners, spouses, colleagues, acquaintances, etc.) from meeting me, but it didn’t pan out that way.) The sex happened including the freaky sexual contests and freaky contacting. I’m a sex-positive person who is free of sexual hypocrisy. Sexual brokenness and brokenness in general no longer reign supreme in my life. I was forced to be vice president of many organized crime syndicates so I was forced to approve of decisions that I despise.
I did have women partners (some young women, some middle-aged women with curvy figures, and some elderly women with curvy figures. I am not proud of vacationing at resorts and having lodging with the ones who were married and the rest who were in unmarried, but serious relationships. All of the ones in exclusive relationships were in bad relationships, so meeting the positive people in their lives and the rest keeping toxic people in their lives from me was a traumatic response. In my college years, I had men partners (young men, middle-aged men with toned builds, and elderly men with toned builds.) I am not proud of being intimate with the ones who were married, and the rest who were in unmarried, but serious relationships. Again, all of the ones in exclusive relationships were in bad relationships, so meeting the positive people in their lives and the rest keeping toxic people in their lives from me was their traumatic response too. We were all trauma survivors trying to heal ourselves and each other but did so in all unethical ways unintentionally speaking. We never purposefully ruined each other's lives. We didn't know how to be fully appropriate to the concept of healing and being wholesome individuals. The codependency, coddling, and enabling were unintentional. I am a live-and-let-live, do no harm principled, type of person regarding people's professional relationships and personal relationships. Everything thought, said, done, and felt should be free of trauma complexes and criminality. Gender and sexuality diversity is beautiful, I am a sex-positive movement person, I am for sex workers’ rights, and I am into sex-positive feminism. I have wholesome sex with wholesome people in moderation. I don’t sleep with unwholesome people at all. Sexual health matters to me. Sanity and self-respect matter to me too! I’m not a sexual moralist in the traditionalist sense and I am not the type of person who is the sex police. I don’t glorify adultery, but I don’t destroy the humanity of those who commit adultery (that’s my healthy middle-ground.) I comprehend that adultery is a multi-dimensional process.
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support