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In this episode of the Reluctant Leader Podcast, host Paul Jenkins explores the power of narratives and how they shape our perceptions of others and ourselves. Using the contrasting stories of NFL players Bryce Young and CJ Stroud, Paul illustrates how initial impressions can be hard to change, but emphasizes that our stories are never finished. He ties this concept to biblical examples, showing how God continues to rewrite stories despite past mistakes. Paul offers practical takeaways, encouraging listeners not to write people off too soon and to reject negative self-narratives, reminding us that our stories are still being written by God.

**** CORRECTION: Stroud did not win the Heisman Trophy - he placed third in the voting.

00:00 Introduction to the Reluctant Leader Podcast
00:46 The Power of Narratives: An NFL Story
03:26 The Impact of First Impressions
04:14 God's Narrative: Stories of Redemption
05:24 Practical Takeaways on Narratives
07:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Narratives shape everything. The stories we tell (and believe) become the lens through which we see people — and ourselves.
• First impressions aren’t final verdicts. Bryce Young and C.J. Stroud show how early perceptions can stick — even when the facts change.
• God rewrites stories. From Moses to Peter to Paul, Scripture proves God refuses to let our worst moments define our lives.
• Give people grace to grow. Don’t judge someone’s “rookie season.” What looks like failure might just be formation.
• Don’t settle for an incomplete story. Your label isn’t your legacy. God’s still writing your next chapter.

💬 Memorable Quotes

“It’s easier to live with a label than to fight for a new narrative — but that’s not how our God works.”“The first season doesn’t define the player, and the first failure doesn’t define the person.”“God doesn’t just start stories. He finishes them.”

📖 Scripture Highlight

“He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.”
— Philippians 1:6

💡 Reflection & Challenge

Before you hit send, before you judge someone, or before you tell your own story in shame — pause and ask:
“Is this the full story, or just a chapter?”

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