We all want to give to others, but beneath our generosity an underlying demand persists. We want to receive back and to possess what we receive. We hold onto people, possessions and achievements for dear life. . Needless to say, this brings much tension, anguish and loss. But when we enter true generosity, we can give and receive freely, not clinging to what comes or goes. Our value is no longer based upon our possessions. Then we enter a flow that constantly brings many gifts,along with joy and well being.