We often want everything NOW. We are a society that doesn't have much patience and wants instant gratification. However, take a look back at your life and think of all the different times something had to happen in order for another thing to happen. Think of the person you met through someone else that became an important part of your life. We are so quick to label life challenges as "bad" but it's all about perspective. Maybe that is the Universe's way of steering you towards where you really need to be.