Hello and welcome to the Life Consult Podcast by Deborah Bliss.

Today, we’re talking about “trusting the process.”
But first, let me share a story.

A friend of mine visited a church for the first time and when I asked how it went, she said the sound was too noisy. That was her main feedback—even though she enjoyed every other aspect.
The second time she attended, she said, “I think the sound is a bit better today.”
By the third visit, she had no complaints. In fact, she said, “It’s fine.”

Here’s the twist: nobody changed anything about the sound. It was exactly the same. But her perception changed. She had grown into the experience. What initially felt “too much” became something she appreciated.

Another story: I once introduced a friend to Amala—her first reaction?
“Oh my God, I don’t like this.”
Second time: “It’s not so bad.”
Third time: She fell in love with it.

So what does this teach us? First impressions are not always accurate. They can be jarring, especially when we’re walking into something unfamiliar. But that doesn’t mean the thing isn’t good—it simply means we need time. Time to grow. Time to understand. Time to adjust.

The same happened when I moved into a new home. At first, I didn’t like certain things. But over time, I began to notice the details—the bright walls, the intentional designs. I began to appreciate it all.

The takeaway? Don’t let your first impression define the experience.
Give it time. Stay open. Trust the process.

I’m not saying ignore your instincts—but don’t conclude too quickly. Sometimes, by walking away too soon, we miss out on something beautiful that just needed a second or third try.

So today, I encourage you:
Trust the process.
Be led by the Holy Spirit.
Remove bias from your heart.
Keep an open mind.
See things for what they really are.

Thanks for tuning in.
Until next time, keep trusting. Keep growing. And keep consulting with Life.

Bye!