There comes a time in every man's education when he reaches the conclusion that the happiness of those he loves is paramount to his own. It is at this moment that the realness of that man begins to blossom. He becomes more than he's ever been. He becomes a better listener, a better provider (for himself and others), and a driving force for greater, less trivial things.

Unfortunately, men often commit when they're in-love with lust, and in-lust with rom-com love – you know, the kind of love you see in the movies where everything is perfect and hilarious, you're happy, and you're both sexually magnificent. We all want that kind of life, right?

Real life relationships aren't always like that, but they don't have to be "hard work," contrary to what the talking heads on TV would have you believe. Here are 5 tips for improving your marriage – or any serious relationship for that matter.