Loving them is enough! You can pray humility, peace and God's will but you cannot force any of it on anybody. Their pursuit of wholeness and intimacy with God is between HIM and them. We want to help you determine who wants your help and who doesn't. For those who don't, there is no need to minimize your willingness to "just" love and pray for them. That's THE best thing to do because until they are ready to receive, that's enough! 2 Corinthians 10:3-4