Confidence Building and Performance Reviews
- Importance of Performance Reviews
- Seen as big, bad, scary events
- Often annual; occasionally more frequent
- Can trigger imposter syndrome and stress
Understanding Imposter Syndrome in Performance Reviews
- Signs of Imposter Feelings
- Minimizing achievements
- Forgetting achievements
- Attributing success to luck or other people
Steps to Reframe Imposter Thoughts
- Reframing Achievements
- Finding evidence in your accomplishments
- Avoiding qualifiers like "but"
- Inner Advocate
- Advocating for yourself as you would for a friend
- Sharing useful information with your manager
- Understanding manager's limitations in what they know and remember
Visualization and Rehearsal Techniques
- Practicing Successful Conversations
- Picturing confident speech and positive feedback
- Using data to support achievements
- Purpose of Visualization
- Overcoming self-doubt
- Recognizing contributions to the team, organization, and boss's goals
Preparing for the Performance Review Meeting
- Asking Relevant Questions
- Understanding manager's goals
- Connecting your achievements to their goals
- Grounding Techniques
- Deep breathing
- Positive affirmations
- Dance party to release nervous energy
- Using Notes
- Bringing written notes to the review
- Being prepared for data-driven discussion
Advocating for Career Advancement
- Taking Initiative
- Asking for promotions, career changes, or extra projects