Some of your closest friends or family can be your biggest influencers, but that doesn’t mean it’s always in a good way. Some people lift you up, and some bring you down. Find people that feed you with positivity and keep away from the toxic ones that hold you back and keep you in that negative space of being a victim. If they aren’t encouraging you to be better, then they are helping you be worse. Love them, but leave them. Negativity is stress, and stress will destroy you.