Welcome back to Episode 12 of Unapologetically Audacious!
Five years ago, we had a conversation that cracked something open in both of us. Ten years ago, Phoebe Dykstra walked away from a dream job at MuchMusic and MTV — the kind of job most people would kill for — to follow a deeper call she couldn’t ignore.
This episode is not about fame. It’s about what happens when your soul outgrows the version of you the world applauds. It’s about identity collapse, spiritual bypassing, psychedelics, plant medicine, ego, and learning how to come home to yourself… again and again.
Phoebe shares the beautiful, brutal, and brave truth behind walking away from fame — and what it really means to build a life that’s yours.
If you’ve ever felt lost in your story, like you’re between chapters, like you’ve been cracked open — this one’s for you.
✨ You’re not broken. You’re just becoming. ✨
👇 Chapters & Timestamps
00:00 – Intro: Who is Phoebe Dykstra now?
03:14 – Walking away from fame: The identity split
13:32 – Shadow work & the evolution of self
20:45 – What would little Phoebe say?
25:58 – The Hero’s Journey explained (and lived)
30:59 – Dissonance, discomfort & leaving your old life
36:13 – Britney Spears, stuck identity & a cry for help
41:00 – Losing people when you evolve
43:38 – The cost of being seen — and loved
46:00 – Returning with the elixir: Completing the hero’s journey
51:02 – Ego isn’t the enemy — it’s part of the ride
57:00 – The mandala moment: “Just chill, it’s all working out.”
🔗 Connect with Phoebe Dykstra
Instagram | @phoebedykstra
Website | [Insert link if applicable]
🎧 Listen now — and get ready to live aligned, audacious, and on your own terms.
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Do you have the audacity to live a life beyond your wildest dreams? Join “Unapologetically Audacious” podcast host, Rebecca Nobrega, as she sits down with like-minded individuals across various industries, who are boldly pursuing more meaningful, soul-aligned lives, unbound by societal norms. Unpack soul-aligned relationships, careers, self-love, the power of choice, and more. Discover how their stories will inspire you to ignite your own path towards aligned fulfillment. After all, you are worthy of everything, you desire, and you are enough simply because you exist.