Private parties, rope burns, and a life most people don’t talk about.

In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, Faerie Bruises (Kitten) shares her journey from a conventional path to becoming a traveling model, dominatrix, and artist immersed in NYC’s underground scene. From the moment everything shifted, to navigating community, identity, and what happens when family finds out — nothing is off limits.

They dive into polyamory, psychological power, rope, creativity, and the reality behind a lifestyle people often misunderstand.

🎙️ A raw, honest conversation about choosing your path — and owning it.

Channels
0:00 – 0:44 — Cold Open & Rope, Pain, and Mom
0:44 – 1:18 — Welcome & Guest Introduction
1:18 – 2:04 — How They Met: The Most Organic Orgy
2:04 – 3:08 — Entering the Poly & Kink Scenes
3:08 – 4:20 — What People Get Wrong About Polyamory
4:20 – 5:11 — Conflict Skills, NVC & Group Chat Chaos
5:11 – 5:55 — Best Group Chat Name: “Spontaneous Bangs”
5:55 – 7:08 — Why ‘Faerie Bruises’? Why ‘Kitten’?
7:08 – 8:28 — From Business School to Going Pro in Sex Work
8:28 – 9:26 — Growing Up in Conservative Oklahoma
9:26 – 12:03 — Being Outed to Her Parents
12:03 – 12:55 — Consent, OnlyFans & Mom Subscribes
12:55 – 14:10 — Advice for Talking to Family About Sex Work & Kink
14:10 – 14:52 — Explaining Masochism: Rope vs Marathons & Spicy Food
14:52 – 15:21 — Hope for Difficult Family Conversations
15:21 – 16:39 — Who She Was Before Kink
16:39 – 17:31 — Petite Powerhouse: Size, Power & Psychological Domination
17:31 – 19:07 — Creating Psychological Panic in Submissives
19:07 – 19:44 — Why Psychological Play Is So Accessible
19:44 – 21:05 — Early Fetishes: Dita Von Teese & Damsels in Distress
21:05 – 22:06 — What Makes a Great Creative Collaboration
22:06 – 23:06 — Rethinking Rope Photography & Private Film at Play Parties
23:06 – 24:13 — What She Loves About Rope: Perversion, Intensity, Play
24:13 – 25:28 — Asia Rope Tour Plans
25:28 – 26:06 — Tomie’s Asia Travel & Kink Curiosity
26:06 – 27:21 — Prompt to Describe a Favorite Rope Scene (Ad Break Intro)
26:21 – 27:20 — Sponsor Segment: Popstar Labs (Volume & Taste Supplement)
27:21 – 30:06 — One of Her Most Emotional Rope Scenes
30:06 – 31:32 — Goodbye Spaces, Closing Dungeons & Ephemeral Moments
31:32 – 32:51 — Intimacy on Camera & Honoring Boundaries
32:51 – 34:09 — Performing vs. Being Real When Cameras Are On
34:09 – 35:01 — Small Cameras, POV, and Trust at Events
35:01 – 36:31 — Misconceptions About Fetish & Kink Modeling
36:31 – 39:04 — Travel Modes: New York Kitten vs. Vacation vs. Adventure
39:04 – 40:30 — Deprogramming the NYC Grind While Traveling
40:30 – 41:24 — Social Battery, Rest Days & Co‑Working with Sex Workers
41:24 – 42:15 — Dom vs Escort: Different Jobs, Overlapping Energies
42:15 – 42:54 — Why She Stopped Pro Subbing
42:54 – 43:50 — Open Call for Pro Subs & Dungeon Overview
43:50 – 45:02 — The Unseen Labor of Running a Dungeon
45:02 – 46:06 — Safety, Supplies & Why Tomie Left a Previous Dungeon
46:06 – 47:03 — The Case of the Missing Foot (Art Theft & Return)
47:03 – 48:08 — Cleanliness, Maintenance & Why This Dungeon Stands Out
48:08 – 48:26 — Transition to Quick‑Fire Round
48:26 – 49:05 — Quick‑Fire: Current Kinks, Size, Shoots, Turn‑Ons & Fears
49:05 – 49:36 — Quick‑Fire: One Word for Her Art & Safe Words
49:36 – 50:13 — What ‘Uncensored’ Means to Her
50:13 – 50:26 — Sponsor Reminder: Popstar Labs (Performance & Volume)
50:26 – 51:13 — Patreon: Where the Truly Uncensored Content Lives
51:13 – 52:02 — Outro & Where to Follow

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EP 53: In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, we sit down with Dia Dynasty — dominatrix and founder of Femdom Farm — to explore her journey from strip clubs to building a radically different life rooted in power, community, and intention.

From mentorship and holistic femdom to rethinking success, land ownership, and alternative living, Dia shares how she’s creating a new model for dominance beyond the dungeon.
A bold, thought-provoking conversation on power, identity, and building your own world.

Watch the full episode — and head to Patreon for the extended cut.

Chapters:
0:00 – 1:02 Intro • Who is Dia Dynasty?
1:03 – 4:41Asian Femdom Lineage, Mentorship & Sisterhood
4:42 – 8:09 From Strip Clubs to Dungeon Life
8:10 – 10:59 First Week as a Domme & the “Point of No Return” Session
11:00 – 13:17Evolving Dominance & Everyday Power Tweaks
13:18 – 20:34 Female Supremacy, Matriarchy & Critique of Patriarchy
20:35 – 26:48 Aligning Dom Craft with Values • Holistic Femdom
26:49 – 35:37An Authentic Scene: Organic DS, Sissy Aesthetics & the Fuck Machine
35:38 – 40:13 Why Femdom Farm? Pandemic, Burnout & Rethinking “Success”
40:14 – 43:22 Finding & Funding the Land • The Vision for Femdom Farm
43:23 – 50:11Amish Neighbors, Gifting Economies & Learning to Give
50:12 – 51:18Pervertible Farmhouse: Hidden Hardpoints & Stealth Kink
51:19 – 56:30 Architecture of Play: Showers, Jails, Asylums & Woods Shacks
56:31 – 57:38 Access, Gatekeeping & How to Visit Femdom Farm
57:39 – 59:05 Quick-Fire Round: Fast Takes with Dia
59:06 – 1:01:35 Outro, Patreon, & Sponsor Plugs

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A burlesque show breaks out at Shabbat. Paul McCartney needs a private chef. A crypto bro orders body sushi at a private dinner and ends up getting yelled at by a naked woman.

Mx Tomie sits down with Chef Tova - the New York private chef behind Sinners Shabbat - after attending Tova’s “Red Scare” kink event. They talk about what happens when food, kink culture, sex work, and sacred Jewish rituals collide. From celebrity clients to chaotic dinner parties, this conversation gets personal, outrageous, and very funny.

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Chapters
00:00 – 00:42 Cold Open & Teasers
00:42 – 02:06 Intro: Who Is Chef Tova?
02:06 – 03:26 From Buttered Pasta to Private Chef
03:26 – 04:15 Paul McCartney & Celebrity Clients
04:15 – 05:29 Growing Up Modern Orthodox
05:29 – 06:06 Converts, Race & Leaving the Neighborhood
06:06 – 07:25 Jewish Culture as Vibe & Passover Clarified
07:25 – 10:08 Why She Created Sinner Shabbat
10:08 – 11:14 The First Sinner Shabbat vs Now
11:14 – 13:39 Why Burlesque & Kink?
13:39 – 16:04 Entering Kink Through Private Chef Work
16:04 – 18:01 Sex Workers as Patrons & Art Supporters
18:01 – 21:32 Body Sushi, Crypto Guy & Birth of a Domme
21:32 – 23:30 Modeling vs Sex Work & Fantasy Dinner Game Intro
23:30 – 24:37 Designing a Dinner for Dommes
24:37 – 26:45 Backlash, Politics & Hate Comments
26:45 – 28:40 Who Leaves Hate Comments?
28:40 – 31:00 Responding With Love & Realizing They’re Just Sad
31:00 – 32:05 Hentai Origins: Library Manga Awakening
32:05 – 33:00 Erotica, Manga & What Actually Turns Them On
33:00 – 33:41 Learning to Fantasize About Yourself as Sexy
33:41 – 33:59 Filming vs Presence
33:59 – 35:51 Feral Restraint Kink & Shibari Scene at Sinner Shabbat
35:51 – 37:08 Submissive at Heart, Situational Dom
37:08 – 38:15 Autistic Subs, Clear Instructions & Puppy Play Misfire
38:15 – 39:44 Different Partners, Different Kinks
39:44 – 40:31 Food & Sex: Separate Realms
40:31 – 42:18 Quick-Fire Round
42:18 – 44:26 Patreon, Ads & Outro

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EP 51: In this episode, Alex from Bottom’s Digest breaks down the real power of the bottom, sharing practical advice on relaxation, preparation, and communication. From beginner mistakes to myths created by porn, this candid conversation explores pleasure, power dynamics, and how to approach intimacy with confidence and knowledge.

Chapters:
0:00 – 2:15 • Intro, Vibes & Meeting Story
2:15 – 3:22 • What Is the Power of a Bottom?
3:22 – 5:40 • Tomie’s Personal Journey With Bottoming
5:40 – 7:56 • First Times, Hemorrhoids & Why Bottoming Shouldn’t Hurt
7:56 – 12:30 • Pegging, Relaxation & Why Butt Plugs Don’t Stretch You
12:30 – 15:06 • Dilators, Lube & Why Silicone Wins
15:06 – 17:46 • Porn Fantasies vs. Reality
17:46 – 20:21 • Dealing With Mess & Choosing Better Partners
20:21 – 23:28 • Why This Work Exists & Calling Out Bad Advice
23:28 – 25:25 • Mid-Roll Ad: Popstar Labs
25:25 – 27:31 • Should Porn Show Prep?
27:31 – 30:03 • Bottoming, Gender, Masculinity & Pegging
30:03 – 32:23 • What Is a Real Power Bottom?
32:23 – 35:33 • Common New-Bottom Mistakes & a Steak-Dinner Horror Story
35:33 – 39:03 • Wild DMs, Shower Enemas & Bent Penises
39:03 – 40:44 • The #1 Question: Douching, Always Douching
40:44 – 42:31 • Prostate 101 & Pleasure Without One
42:31 – 44:20 • Too Small? Curves, Positions & Finger Techniques
44:20 – 45:25 • Biggest Red Flag: Pain
45:25 – 46:12 • Quick-Fire Round
46:12 – 46:50 • Final Advice for New Bottoms & Pegging Subs
46:50 – 48:08 • Closing Ads & Patreon Pitch
48:08 – 48:57 • Outro & Follow Links

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