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In this seasons opening Guest in the Saddle episode, we sit down with Mesa Pate from Art of the Cowgirl.

Born and raised in Montana’s ranching community, Mesa’s life has always revolved around horses, hard work, and heritage. From hauling bucking bulls on the PBR circuit to helping build Art of the Cowgirl alongside her late mother, Tammy Pate, Mesa shares what it’s been like to step into leadership, honor legacy, and continue creating a space where women, horses, and culture are celebrated.

We talk about who Mesa is beyond the event, and how the Art of the Cowgirl is meant to be a gathering rooted in connection, confidence, and tradition. 

🎟 Art of the Cowgirl takes place February 24–28 at Rancho Rio in Wickenburg, Arizona.

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This episode sits in the tender, quieter corners of horse ownership, the ones we don’t want to talk about because it's hard and vulnerable. We’re unpacking what it feels like to love horses while living with illness and invisible battles. Through Britain's personal lens we are chatting about navigating health setbacks and redefining what “showing up” looks like. This is a reminder that everyone at the barn is carrying something so choose to show up with kindness

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A continuation of our conversation with Canadian show jumper and FEI rider Alex Grayton where he uncinches a life in the international show-jumping world. Alex continues to share about the horses who have shaped his journey, some of his pet peeves about the industry and his general love for the horse.  This is quirky yet thought provoking chat about the industry and how it works. This episode is made for anyone who wants to learn more about the FEI, Grand Prix and show jumping world through Alex's experiences. Let’s uncinch what it means to be in the English riding world.

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Canadian showjumper and FEI rider Alex Grayton joins Uncinched to unpack a life in the international show-jumping world. Alex shares the people and moments that shaped his career, stories from working with legendary names in the sport, and the twists that led him to where he is now. This is an insightful and thought provoking chat about the industry and the people within it. This episode is made for anyone who wants to learn more about the FEI, Grand Prix and show jumping world through Alex's experiences. Let’s uncinch what it means to be in the English riding world.

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We asked… and wow, did you deliver. In this second round of Uncinched Confessions, we dive into even more raw, eye-opening experiences that shifted the way riders think about horses, horsemanship, and the culture surrounding it all. From industry blind spots to personal wake-up calls, we unpack the stories that changed people’s perspectives and maybe will change yours, too. This episode is honest and a little spicy. Tune in, uncinch with us, and let’s keep the conversation going.

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In this episode, we dive into part 1 of the raw and unfiltered stories our listeners shared about the moments that completely shifted the way they see the horse world. From hard lessons to eye-opening experiences, we unpack the confessions that challenged beliefs, changed perspectives, and reshaped horsemanship for so many riders. With honesty, humour, and a whole lot of advice you didn't really ask for, we talk through the good, the bad, and the downright surprising realities of barn life. Join us as we reflect, react, and uncinch the experiences that shaped who we are as horse people today.

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In this episode, we dive into the routines, habits, and mindsets that keep both horses and riders fit, happy, and ready for the work ahead. From building simple, effective fitness plans to the importance of warm-ups and cool-downs—especially in Western Canada’s unpredictable weather—we’re breaking down what it takes to support your horse’s body and your own.

We’ll chat about going at your horse’s pace (not just your own timeline), how rider fitness directly impacts horse soundness, and why self-love and body acceptance are vital parts of the journey. Plus, we’re sharing a companion digital product—our Horse + Rider Fitness Planner—that helps you create routines and track your progress.

This episode is about partnership, not perfection. Because when you take care of yourself, you take care of your horse.

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When your ego’s in the saddle, nobody wins.

In this episode, Britain and Tea get real about how ego influences the way we train, compete, and celebrate wins with our horses. From Rumour’s role in building a business to Pete’s reserve champion title in working equitation, they share personal stories that highlight the truth: every win, milestone, and achievement belongs to the horse just as much—if not more—than the rider or trainer. Together, they unpack the importance of appreciation over ownership, and how we should be shifting from “me” to “we” in horsemanship.

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You sent them in, and we definitely couldn’t fit them all in one episode… so here we are with round two! This episode continues the wild ride of unfiltered, brutally honest, and downright hilarious confessions and pet peeves from our listeners in the horse world.

We’re reading and reacting to everything you had to get off your chest. No name-dropping, no judgment—just two professionals shaking our heads (and laughing way too hard) at the realities of our industry. Buckle up, it’s about to get spicy… again.

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In this episode of Uncinched, we're taking a step back from the glitz and filters of the horse world to talk about what’s really going on behind the scenes. From the pressure to own brand-new, high-end gear to the unrealistic standards set by social media, we're calling it like it is. Tea and Britain dive into the financial and emotional strain that comes with chasing trends—and how it’s okay (and often smarter) to choose practicality, second-hand finds, and what actually works for you and your horse.

We’re normalizing budget-friendly choices, celebrating used tack, and reminding you that your horse doesn’t care if your saddle was this year’s model or last decade’s steal.

Plus, we plug our Equine Expenses Tracker & Monthly Planner, available now in our Linktree—because managing your life with horses  shouldn’t feel like a mystery or a money pit.

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