Answer to codependency is conditions to love, which is an unhealthy pattern that we were taught to believe and it is okay to have conditioned love in a relationship.  We humans get so attached to people, places, and things that we allow our selves to get attached to conditions to fill a void.  It is crucial to break free from this energy because it does not serve us it brings us suffering.  The pure unconditional love is that I love you for who you are that you exist.  Unconditional relationship is two people are fully fulfilled on all emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical levels, that it doesn't allow room for lack or unhealthy attachments.  Unconditional love is the highest frequency of purity and bliss one can achieve to live most abundant life.  I love you thank you for being the beautiful soul that you are!