To understand how to love and and un love . To guide with a gentle mine, but to sore with a loving heart to not break your boundaries to understand pain unclear to you or unknown to you . Hold yourself to your expectations. Don’t settle for comfort, but to settle for peace (don’t let that go over your head) to continually adjust your focus, but to understand that you’re no better than anyone, but not to put yourself on the level as everyone knowing that you’re still learning, and you can be taught, but you cannot always teach what you do not know to not eagerly fix a plate that you cannot repair, but to adjust that plate to understand that you did not fix it but you will help straighten it but you will not let that plate break you in half.