"Our needs just were not being met," says the father of four, "so we dropped out of church."  "He just is not meeting my needs," says a young wife to her best friend.  "Dad" says a teenager, "I need a new pair of pants for the game next Saturday."  "Heavenly Father," prays a businessman, "I need that deal I am working on.  Please help me to get the contract rather than my competitor."