There are 5 love languages as mentioned by Gary Chapman in his book. Understanding them and practicing them is important and necessary in your relationship. Most often there are break ups and misunderstandings because people are not able to know their and theirs partner's love language. You'll find 4 steps to understand the love language of yours and your partner's. I hope you guys will like it. Jay shetty already made a podcast on this and i suggest you guys hear that one too, he knows a lot.