We tell our kids to get off their phones, while we’re scrolling in the bathroom. We call it ‘work,’ ‘networking,’ or ‘staying informed’, but let’s be real, most of us are just chasing that same dopamine hit, wrapped in grown-up excuses.
On this episode of UNFeigned the Podcast, we’re flipping the camera on us l, the adults...the parents...the professionals...the leaders, because maybe it’s not just our kids who need a digital detox. Maybe it’s us.

🎙️ Episode 2...Generation Scroll: What It’s Doing to Our Kids
Have you ever handed your kid a phone just to get a moment of peace? Yeah, we all have. Here’s the part that keeps me up at night though. We didn’t just give them a device. We handed them a mirror that talks back.
➡️ That mirror doesn’t just reflect who they are; it tells them who they should be...24/7.
➡️ That mirror compares, measures, mocks, edits, filters, validates, and rejects them, all before their brains even know how to process identity.
We didn’t mean to, but we’ve created the most connected, and simultaneously, the most anxious, depressed, overstimulated, and under-connected generation in history.

🎙️ New Series: The Effects of Social Media
We live in the most connected time in history, and yet we’ve never been more disconnected from ourselves, our families, and our peace.
The 'Effects of Social Media' series is a raw, unfiltered, deeply human look at what constant connectivity is doing to our minds, our bodies, and our souls.
This series blends psychology, neuroscience, faith, sarcasm, and truth to unpack how social media rewires our brains, reshapes our relationships, and rewrites our sense of worth. It’s part therapy, part intervention, and part mirror, the kind you probably don’t want to look into, but need to.
Each episode challenges you to confront digital addiction, reclaim your attention, and rediscover what it means to be present, because your life deserves more than likes; it deserves your attention.
We’re not just losing focus, we’re losing ourselves. It’s time to take our minds, our families, and our souls back.

🎙️ (Ep. 2) Be Curious, Not Judgmental: Questions Save Relationships
You ever had someone ask you a question that wasn’t really a question? It was more like an accusation wearing a trench coat. You know, "Why are you always late?" or, "Why can’t you just…?" Those aren’t questions. Those are judgmental grenades...but real questions, curious questions, can literally save relationships.
On Episode 2, 'Questions Save Relationships', we’re going to unpack how asking the right kind of questions can take a marriage off life support, rebuild trust between friends, and even stop conflict in its tracks. Here’s the truth: questions can heal, or they can destroy.

🎙️ New Podcast Series: Be Curious, Not Judgmental
This series digs into one of my core mantras: Be Curious, Not Judgmental.
Each episode explores what it means to approach people with openness, humility, and curiosity instead of assumptions, accusations, or hidden agendas. It unpacks how curiosity builds bridges in every type of relationship, whether with a spouse, a child, a friend, a coworker, or even with strangers, and how judgment shuts those bridges down before they can even be walked on.
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In today’s world, we’re drowning in noise...social media hot takes, childish name-calling, and debates that sound more like playground fights than meaningful dialogue. The result? Division, confusion, and a culture that’s forgotten what truth even is.
In this episode, we dive into the necessity of intelligent conversations, why they matter, and why settling for immature, unintelligent arguments has left us with chaos, cultural decline, and a generation unable to discern right from wrong. We’ll talk about the importance of recognizing absolute truth, because without it, we’re just chasing feelings, trends, and opinions that shift like the wind.
Real change doesn’t come from yelling louder or canceling those we disagree with. It comes from being willing to sit down, reason together, and pursue truth with clarity and conviction. If we actually want to move forward as a society, it starts here: choosing maturity over immaturity, intelligence over ignorance, and truth over confusion.

Most of us carry wounds when it comes to sex...wounds from the way we were taught about it, wounds from experiences that hurt us, wounds from shame and silence, and you can try to cover it up with performance, with jokes, with busyness…but wounds have a way of showing up when the lights go out.

➡️ How do I tell if I’m with a narcissist?➡️ Why is it that men are only called narcissists?➡️ Can’t women be narcissists too?➡️ What are the signs of narcissism?➡️ Can you do a deep dive into narcissism?➡️ How do I ‘deal’ with a narcissist?
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Let’s be real. Too many couples are having “maintenance sex”...Scheduled. Serious. Silent. Then they wonder why the spark is gone.
Here’s the truth...sex without play is like a joke without a punchline. Intimacy dies when laughter leaves.
In this episode, of 'Let’s Talk About It', we’re breaking down why flirting, laughter, and curiosity might just be the sexiest things in your relationship.
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The biggest block to great sex isn’t usually physical. It’s mental. It’s the stories we’re telling ourselves in the moment, and those stories can either draw us closer or shut us down completely.
We’re going to unpack the unspoken mental soundtrack that plays during intimacy, and why it matters more than most couples ever admit.